Thomas the Train Toots No More

On a trip to the basement yesterday, I caught the eye of Thomas the Train.  He still had that goofy, wide-eyed look on his face, but I could tell he was putting up a brave front.  He was laying on his side in a plastic bin, pinned by a wooden track and surrounded by his friends. You know, Percy, Henry, Gordon, Bertie the Bus and many others whose names I just cannot remember.  They were crowded together with 80 feet of track, a roundhouse, railroad signals and a few fake trees.  Usually Thomas and friends are spread out in the play area, ready for another adventure my 5-year-old son Josh has created for them.

Thomas the Train in the bin

But last week, I asked Josh to pack up Thomas and move him for his sister’s birthday party.  That was a week ago.  As I looked at Thomas the Train’s cheeky little face, frozen in the bin, I realized that he may not be coming back out.  I think he knew it too.

Thomas was an obsession for Josh starting at age three.   He built new tracks every day.  And when I say tracks, I mean intricate, multilevel rail systems with switches and bridges that ran the length of our basement.  For hours, he would lay the side of his head on the carpet, in a bizarre little crouch, so he could be eye level with Thomas as he chugged along.  Each addition to the crew was major excitement.  Aquarium cars, happy birthday party cars.  We even got Troublesome Trucks that laughed.  Evil, creepy laughing, but Josh loved them.

He sported a red Thomas the Train sweatshirt and begged Santa for a “squishy Thomas”.  We didn’t know what that was, until we saw a stuffed, plush Thomas the Train at Target.  Santa put one under the tree that year.  We even took Josh to ride the life-sized Thomas the Train when it rolled into Greenfield Village.  It was a forty degree day in May with a cold drizzle.  Miserable.  And it was NOT cheap.  (Memo to the Thomas the train people: have mercy on parents that have already gone broke buying all your stuff.)  Josh loved it.

I grumbled about Thomas.  I couldn’t stand the show, the bizarre movies and books.  They were kind of weird and sometimes made no sense.  My sister claimed she could write a paper comparing Thomas and his friends at the railway to a dysfunctional, modern workplace environment.  (This is also the sister who wrote an entire paper on how “Beverly Hills 90210″ reenforced bad gender stereotypes)

But things changed in the last few months. Talk on the kindergarten playground turned to “Star Wars” and Legos.  And “Star Wars Legos”.  Josh would still play with Thomas a little, but his new Lego police station got most of the attention.

The other day Josh had a friend over to play and I told him to pick up his room before his friend came.  I walked in for inspection and noticed something missing.  Squishy Thomas wasn’t sitting on the bed, like he usually does.

“Where’s Squishy?”  I asked.

“Oh,” said Josh.  “He’s here.”  And he opened his closet to show Squishy Thomas on a

Squishy Thomas

shelf.  Hidden away.

It makes me so sad.  I know he’s getting older and I know he has to move on.  But Thomas marked a big part of our lives. So many times over the past few years, I have wished for my kids to grow up (to at least go to the bathroom by themselves).  I would say  “I can’t wait until they’re old enough..”

Now I find myself saying, “Just a little bit longer”.

There’s a reason why the Toy Story movies made adults cry – the nostalgia for loving a toy so much, the idea that perhaps a toy could love in return, and inevitability that we’ll outgrow them.  I feel bad for ‘ol Thomas in the basement.  He gave Josh years of entertainment and an outlet for his creativity.  Now, he may be done.

As I walked up from the basement and to the bedrooms, I stopped at Josh’s door to look in.  It was a Lego explosion, with small police cars and pieces scattered about.  Luke Skywalker and Darth Vader figurines duked it out in a corner near a fleet of racing cars.

And sitting on the bed, was Squishy Thomas.  Back in his familiar spot.

For now.

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19 Comments on “Thomas the Train Toots No More”

  1. Greg Eno says:

    I Tweeted to Jamie that my mom made me throw out a stuffed fox I had because I had outgrown it (in her eyes). To this day she can recall overhearing me say goodbye to it before it met its fate with the garbage. I tease her for being heartless—to this day! The whole transition from one toy phase to the other can be gut-wrenching, for parents and kids alike.

  2. jenhilzinger says:

    Nooooo!!!!! Not yet ;)

    I’ve notice the Thomas play shifting a bit around here too. Trains are still ever-present, but the play is a bit more sophisticated, imaginary. The trains have more stories, ones I don’t remember from the videos or books. And their personalities are more rich.

    And then we also have the legos… that’s where our 14 year old and 5 year old sons can play roughly the same way at the same time, believe it or not.

  3. Eric Edelstein says:

    I wrote a comment on Jamie’s facebook
    Page check it out when you have a
    Moment.

  4. That brings back some memories for me. My son will be 14 in May. We still have a Thomas collection in the basement. I cannot believe how many hours I watched the DVD’s/VHS tapes, played with the various train sets or how many times seeing Thomas at Greenfield Village. Ah, Sir Topham Hat, Percy and Thomas…you are missed in a sentimental way. :-)

  5. Oh Christy- sniff, sniff! I felt the same way when we sold my daughter’s Dora house. Dora was what she was obsessed with at that age. Now, her little brother is the one obsessed- with Thomas! And while I was reading this post he was climbing on me because he saw the Thomas pix on the screen! hehe. He just turned three and can not get enough of Thomas. He even saved the little leaflet inside one of the boxes that has pictures of all the trains on it and accessories. He calls it his “map” and studies it all the time. His Aunt Beck even got him a “squishy” Thomas from Target for his birthday last week. I will definitely be cherishing every moment of this phase…

  6. Marco says:

    He’ll get nostalgic and give Thomas the train a few more plays. And then one day, sometime around 11, he’ll give it one more final go. I think when I was 11 or so I pulled all my toys and had a huge battle. It was the battle to end all battles. Legos, GI Joes, Playmobil, Tonka trucks, Star Wars figures, even some barbies were drafted by the GI army, albeit reluctantly. It was epic. I even incorporated firecrackers for good measure. It was messy, but fun. I never played again.

  7. Amber Housey says:

    I might cry. We are always wanting them to grow up so fast. Sniff. Oh, and I bawled at Toy Story (the boy even looks likes Ben all grown up) while Ben was telling me to stop crying and let him go in the theater. :) sigh.

  8. Andria Hayes says:

    Oh boy did your story hit home. I just recently went through my son’s toys, giving away all his large tonka trucks and Thomas the train items. He is in 1st grade and hasn’t played with stuff in a year. But I had regret afterwards, especially the Thomas the train. It blew out steam, I remembered getting him that on his 3rd birthday. I know it went to a good home, but boy was/still is hard.

  9. Cindy La Ferle says:

    My boy was obsessed with Thomas the Tank Engine when the character and show were just getting started, in the late 1980s. He moved on to Legos, then computer games … then off to college. He’s 26 now, getting married in the fall. Thanks for the sweet memories!

  10. james72013 says:

    I could swear a few times I saw my toys playing with themselves. And now when I play with my toy pirates in the morning I leave then on my bed to play with themselves until bedtime. I’d play with my Thomas set but I lost the pieces. I’m 9 years old by the way.


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